There’s a sharp line down our shared yard, like someone sliced the grass with a razor. On his side, it’s short and tidy. Ours looks like a jungle in comparison. But here’s the thing—I mow it. Every week.
It started in June. Our neighbor, Rami, got a new electric mower. Sleek, silent, the kind you could probably control with a phone. I noticed he stopped doing the whole yard, which he used to do. We never asked him to, but it was just something he always did—mow right through the middle, like we were all part of one big patch of green.
Now? He stops dead at the invisible property line, wheels turned slightly outward like he’s making a point. First time I noticed it, I thought maybe he was in a rush. Second time, I figured, okay, boundary stuff. But then the third time? I saw him glance up at our window before reversing away, leaving our grass tall and waving.
I didn’t say anything for weeks. I just started mowing my side again, but it felt… petty. Like we were in a silent war. Then my daughter pointed it out while playing in the sprinkler. “Why does Uncle Rami hate our grass now?”
Uncle Rami. That’s the kicker—he used to be like family. We’d BBQ together. Watch games. He held my mother’s hand at her funeral.
So I finally walked over to his garage, figured I’d break the weird tension. I joked about the “grass border.” He didn’t laugh. Just looked me in the eye and said—
“You should ask your wife why I stopped mowing your side.”
It was like being slapped.
I blinked. “What?”
Rami didn’t flinch. He just stood there, arms crossed, the garage still open behind him. The sound of the electric mower whirring down cooled in the air.
“Ask her,” he said. Then turned back toward his workbench like we hadn’t been talking at all.
I walked home slow. It felt like my ears were ringing, and not from the heat. I wasn’t the suspicious type—I trusted Pree. We’d been married twelve years, built our life one IKEA shelf at a time. But those words looped through my head on repeat.
That night, after the kids were down, I brought it up.
“Did something happen between you and Rami?”
She looked up from her laptop, blinking like she’d just come up for air. “What? No. Why?”
I told her about the grass, how weird he’d been acting, what he said. She went quiet. Slowly closed her laptop.
“I didn’t want to bring this up,” she said, “because it didn’t feel important.”
Which is never a good sign.
She told me how back in May, Rami had offered to help her bring in groceries while I was at work. They ended up chatting in the kitchen. Pree said he was acting weird—too complimentary, standing too close. Then apparently he made a comment, something about how “if things were different, he could’ve made her really happy.”
I blinked. “He said that?”
She nodded, but she didn’t sound angry. Just… tired. “I told him to back off. That I loved you. That he was out of line. He apologized. Swore it was a one-time thing, and I let it go. I didn’t want to ruin your friendship.”
So that’s why he stopped mowing our side. That’s why he looked at the window before turning around.
Rami was embarrassed.
And probably a little bitter.
I didn’t know what to do with that. I’d loved Rami like a brother. He was there when I brought my son home from the hospital. Helped me patch the fence. Taught me how to grill chicken so it didn’t taste like drywall.
I wanted to storm over there and yell. I also wanted to just pretend it never happened.
Instead, I did something dumber: I ignored it.
I stopped waving when we pulled into the driveway. I avoided him at the mailbox. Pree and I didn’t talk about it again, but the tension lingered in the air like humidity. The grass line stayed. Always freshly cut on his side, scraggly on ours unless I kept on top of it.
One Saturday in July, I noticed Rami having trouble starting his mower. I watched through the blinds. He kicked at the tire, then crouched down to fiddle with something near the battery. I told myself not to care. Not my problem anymore.
But the next morning, his garage door was still open. The mower was inside, tipped awkwardly like it had been abandoned mid-repair. Something about it felt… off.
I walked over around noon. Knocked on his side door. No answer. I went back home, texted him. Hours passed. Nothing.
It wasn’t until Tuesday that someone else noticed—Mara, two doors down, said she hadn’t seen him in days. Her voice had that worried pitch. “He always walks his dog around seven. Every night. Rain or shine.”
I found the dog. Ziba. A nervous little grey mutt with big eyes and a lopsided tail, barking behind the front window. Food dish was empty.
By Wednesday morning, I called the non-emergency line.
Turned out Rami had collapsed in his kitchen. Dehydrated, borderline diabetic episode. He’d been out cold for over 48 hours.
They said if I hadn’t checked in, he might not have made it.
Everything that had been knotted up in me kind of dissolved in that moment.
We all showed up to the hospital—me, Pree, Mara, even old Mr. Duvall from across the street who Rami always argued with over garbage bins.
He looked so small in that bed. Not like the confident guy who used to crack jokes at every BBQ.
When he woke up, he cried. Not loud or dramatic. Just quiet tears sliding down the sides of his face.
I waited until everyone else had left the room. Then I sat down.
He couldn’t meet my eyes. “I was a jerk.”
“Yeah,” I said. “But you’re still my friend. And I’d rather have you alive and awkward than… not around.”
He laughed a little at that. Winced from the IV.
“I was lonely,” he said. “I thought maybe Pree—maybe she saw me. The way she talks to people, it feels like sunlight. I didn’t mean to make it weird. I just… crossed a line.”
I nodded. “She told me what you said. She also said she forgave you. That counts for something.”
He sniffed. “I’ll mow your damn lawn again.”
We both laughed at that. A real laugh, finally.
A week later, he came home with a band around his wrist and a bag of prescriptions. We helped him set reminders on his phone. Got him a proper AC unit—turns out his old one had been broken all summer, and he was too proud to say anything.
And true to his word, the next Saturday, the grass got mowed. Both sides.
But here’s the twist: I stopped him halfway through.
Told him I’d handle my half. Not because I was mad.
Because it was time I showed up for him, too.
All these years, I let him do extra, take care of things, be the “cool single uncle” next door. I never really checked if he was okay underneath all that.
We started having dinners again. Not every night, but enough. He’d bring Ziba over. My kids would toss her treats.
Pree forgave, but she kept a healthy distance. Rami respected that. Things didn’t go back to what they were, but maybe they turned into something better.
Real. Honest.
We mowed our own lawns. But we also looked out for each other. Shared leftovers. Brought mail inside when one of us was out of town.
And one day, late August, I caught him in the middle of his yard, staring at the grass line.
“What?” I asked.
He smiled. “Nothing. Just thinking how stupid I was to almost lose this over pride. And one dumb comment.”
I nodded. “Yeah. But you showed up. That’s what matters.”
He grinned. “You’re still mowing crooked, by the way.”
I flipped him off, and he laughed so hard he had to sit down.
Sometimes the people who seem strongest are just the best at hiding the cracks.
And sometimes a stupid, straight line in the grass is the only clue that something’s gone crooked inside someone’s heart.
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