The Washing Machine Repair Guy Gave Me A Note—But It Wasn’t About Me At All

The washing machine leaked, so I called a technician. He fixed it in half an hour, and I paid him. When he was leaving, I saw him blush, and he handed me a piece of paper. I unfolded it and read: “Please call me. It’s about someone you know.”

My first reaction was: weird. And I almost tossed it in the trash. But something about the way he handed it to me—eyes down, hand slightly shaking—made me pause. His name was Ruben, and he couldn’t have been more than 25. Quiet. Polite. Not the type to hand out strange notes to middle-aged women with graying roots and laundry baskets full of mismatched socks.

I called the number the next day, curiosity getting the better of me. He answered on the second ring.

“Hi, this is… uh, the washing machine lady,” I said awkwardly.

He cleared his throat. “Thank you for calling. I didn’t know how else to… I mean, this is awkward, but… do you know someone named Felix Deren?”

That name hit me like a slap. I sat down hard on the couch.

Felix Deren was my ex-husband.

We hadn’t spoken in over seven years. Not since the divorce got ugly. He moved away—no one knew where exactly. We had no kids, no shared property, so the silence just stretched out over time. My friends always said I dodged a bullet, but there was a time I thought he hung the moon.

“Yes, I know him,” I said slowly. “Why?”

Ruben hesitated, then said, “He’s my father.”

I blinked.

“I don’t mean to scare you or anything,” he added quickly. “I just found out a few months ago. My mom told me after he died.”

That word—died—landed like a brick in my lap. I had so many questions I didn’t even know which one to ask first.

“He… he passed away?” I finally managed.

“Yeah. In February.”

It was June.

Apparently, Felix had moved down to San Luis Obispo, taken up painting, and lived a relatively quiet life. Ruben’s mom—Elira—had had a brief relationship with him in the early 2000s, never told Felix she was pregnant, and raised Ruben on her own.

“He tried to reach out to her a few times, but I guess she was scared. Or stubborn. She only told me the truth after the funeral. Said he left a box for me. In it… was a letter. And pictures. And your name.”

I was stunned. I didn’t know what to say.

“Can we meet?” he asked gently. “There’s something he wanted me to give you.”

We met at a quiet coffee shop the next afternoon. Ruben showed up in jeans and a work shirt, grease under his fingernails. He reminded me so much of Felix it hurt—same thick eyebrows, same calm stare.

He handed me a worn envelope, yellowed at the corners. My name was written in Felix’s unmistakable cursive.

I opened it with shaking hands.

The letter was four pages long.

The first was an apology. For the way things ended, for the emotional distance, for not fighting harder to keep me. He said he was broken back then—scared of being a failure, scared of not being enough.

The second page was full of memories. Tiny, intimate details only someone who loved you deeply would remember. The way I used to hum when folding laundry. The time I cried during a pet food commercial and tried to pretend I had allergies.

The third was about Ruben. He wrote how he’d only learned the truth about having a son a year before he died. He’d tried reaching out, but Elira wouldn’t return the calls. He left things behind for Ruben—a savings account, a list of books he hoped he’d read, and letters.

The last page was for me again. He asked for forgiveness, though he didn’t expect it. He said if Ruben ever found me, he hoped I’d give him a chance. “He’s a good kid,” he wrote. “Better than I ever was. I hope you see a part of me in him—but mostly, I hope you see him for who he is.”

When I looked up, my eyes were full of tears. Ruben didn’t say a word. He just sat there, giving me space.

Over the next few weeks, we kept in touch. He came over once to fix the dryer when it started making a horrible squeal. Then again when I couldn’t figure out how to get the backyard sprinklers working. I started baking again—something I hadn’t done in years—and always made extras for him.

One night, after he helped me re-caulk the bathtub, we sat on the porch sipping lemonade. The air smelled like cut grass and honeysuckle. Out of nowhere, he said, “You know, I used to wonder what it’d be like to have a family.”

I didn’t respond right away. I wasn’t sure I had the right to answer.

Then I said, “So did I.”

From that point on, he started calling me on Sundays. Just short calls—updates on work, asking if I’d seen some new documentary, or if I could recommend a good dinner recipe that didn’t involve noodles.

About three months later, he brought Elira by to meet me.

I wasn’t sure what to expect. Maybe some cool resentment or awkward small talk. But she walked in holding a lemon tart and said, “I heard you bake too. Maybe you can show me how not to burn the crust.”

She was funny, blunt, and warmer than I expected. She also carried years of guilt over keeping Felix away, but I didn’t hold that against her. Life’s messy. People try to protect themselves the only way they know how.

That night, we laughed over wine and old stories. She asked me if Felix ever painted when we were together. I told her no. He didn’t even doodle.

“Well, he got good,” she said. “Real good.”

Ruben went to his truck and brought in two wrapped canvases.

I recognized my face instantly in one of them—older, but unmistakably me. Soft lighting, faint smile, like I was about to say something and then forgot what. I had never sat for that portrait, but somehow, Felix had painted me exactly as I was.

“He painted you from memory,” Ruben said. “There’s a whole stack of them.”

My heart cracked open. I had spent years thinking he had forgotten me.

I hung the portrait in my living room. Not out of vanity, but because it reminded me of who I used to be—and who I could still become.

A few weeks later, Ruben asked if I’d come with him to an art auction in San Luis. Some of Felix’s paintings were being featured. We drove down together in my dented Civic, the windows rolled down, music blasting.

The gallery was small but tasteful. Felix’s work was displayed under soft lights, and people were murmuring admiring things. Landscapes, still lifes, a few quiet portraits of strangers.

Then I saw one titled “The Last Thing I Remember.” It was a painting of the kitchen in our old house—sunlight pouring over a cup of tea, a plate of half-eaten toast, and a red cardigan draped over the chair.

My red cardigan.

I stood there frozen. That morning—years ago—was the day we had our worst fight. I’d thrown that sweater down and walked out. I never went back.

“He kept painting you,” Ruben said quietly beside me. “Even when he was sick.”

Turns out, Felix had been battling cancer for nearly three years. Quietly. He didn’t tell anyone outside a small circle. Not even his sister. He just kept painting, as if trying to say all the things he never could with words.

I drove home that night feeling like I’d been given a second chance I didn’t ask for—but deeply needed.

Over time, Ruben became a fixture in my life. He helped repaint my kitchen, showed me how to change my oil, even taught me how to properly grill a steak (apparently I’d been doing it wrong for 20 years).

But it wasn’t just about fixing things.

He listened. He asked questions. He remembered birthdays and brought me little things—a sunflower on a Tuesday, a box of baklava after a bad week, a worn copy of a novel I’d once mentioned off-hand.

One evening, as we were packing up a few of Felix’s old things that Ruben had inherited, we found a letter tucked in a book of poetry. It was addressed simply: “To the person who stayed.”

I read it out loud.

It was meant for whoever stood by Ruben when he finally opened himself up to being loved. It talked about how people aren’t puzzles you have to solve, just gardens you have to tend. And how the most lasting things in life come quietly, after the noise.

That letter broke something open in both of us.

We sat in silence, letting the weight of those words settle. Then Ruben turned to me and said, “I know I’m not your son. But I’d like to stick around—if that’s okay.”

I laughed through my tears. “You already have.”

We don’t call it anything, exactly. But he brings me groceries when I’m sick, and I iron his work shirts when he’s too tired. We bicker about movie endings and argue over crossword puzzles and make each other tea without asking.

Last Christmas, he showed up with a frame. Inside was a painting of my house—lights on, curtains drawn, snow gently falling outside. A small figure stood at the doorway, holding a wrench and a pie.

Underneath, it said: “Home Is Who Stays.”

I guess life has a funny way of giving you back what you thought you’d lost—just not in the form you expected.

Sometimes, the people we’re meant to love don’t enter our lives at the beginning. Sometimes, they arrive after the repairs.

So yeah, the washing machine leaked. But it brought me family I didn’t know I was still allowed to have.

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