Why I’ll Never Ignore My Gut Again

I told my boss I couldn’t turn on my camera during a client Zoom call, but he insisted. So I did. Next thing my co-workers were laughing, my boss’s jaw dropped and I frantically pressed every button trying to stop my screen from showing.

What showed up wasn’t just me—it was me, in my pajamas, sitting on my unmade bed, with a spaghetti-stained hoodie, and behind me, clear as daylight, my grandma doing squats in her nightgown.

It was chaos. I could hear one co-worker snorting, trying to mute herself. Another one just lost it completely. The client blinked fast like he wasn’t sure if this was part of the presentation. And my boss… he just stared like someone had hit pause on his brain.

I yanked the plug on my Wi-Fi router. The screen froze mid-granny-squat. I just sat there for a moment, stunned, holding the power cord in my hand, thinking, Well… I’m definitely fired.

I wanted to disappear into the couch cushions.

Ten minutes later, my phone buzzed. My boss, Mr. Dunne, had sent a message: “Call me.”

I took a deep breath, dialed, and got ready to beg for my job. But the first thing he said surprised me.

“You okay?”

I blinked. “Uh… yeah?”

“That was your grandma?”

“Yeah. She’s… doing this new online fitness program.”

There was a pause. Then he chuckled. “She’s got form. Impressive. Look, I was out of line pushing you to turn on the camera. I just wanted to make the call more personal. But it’s my mistake.”

I didn’t expect that.

“I appreciate that,” I said quietly.

“Just… maybe check your background next time?”

“Noted.”

After that, I figured it’d blow over. A funny story in the Slack channel, maybe a few memes. But that clip? Someone had recorded it. It hit the company group chat. Then someone posted it online.

By the end of the day, I was viral.

It had over 300,000 views in 12 hours. The caption was “When your grandma steals the show on Zoom.” Someone had even added music—”Eye of the Tiger.”

Grandma loved it.

“I told you squats were worth it,” she grinned, watching herself on repeat. “Look at that form!”

I didn’t love it. I felt humiliated. And more than anything, I felt exposed. I’d worked so hard to keep things professional, to seem like I had it together. That moment? It tore the curtain back.

People started messaging me—old classmates, co-workers from jobs years ago, even my cousin in Canada. Some were kind. Some just laughed. And then, something weird started happening.

A journalist from a local TV station reached out. “We’d love to do a short feel-good segment on you and your grandma—something light for the end of the news.”

I asked Grandma. She was already doing her hair.

“I’m wearing my floral tracksuit,” she said, combing out her curls.

We did the interview. It aired Friday night. Apparently, people needed a laugh that week. After that, even more messages poured in.

A fitness brand sent us free gear. Grandma got invited to do a “Senior Moves” Instagram Live. She became Nana Fit online. I wish I was kidding.

Meanwhile, back at work, things were…weird. Most people were nice. But I could feel it—those lingering looks in meetings. The “Hey Zoom Star” comments. I felt like I wasn’t being taken seriously anymore.

It all came to a head during a project pitch two weeks later.

Our team had been working for a month on a big campaign for a wellness brand. I’d put in extra hours, ran numbers, even rewrote the main deck three times. The morning of the pitch, I was ready.

Halfway through the presentation, the client smiled and said, “Hey, you’re the girl with the grandma squats! My wife LOVES your nana.”

Everyone laughed. I forced a smile.

“Yep, that’s me.”

“Can we maybe include her in a campaign? Like a ‘Wellness at Every Age’ thing?”

My heart sank. This was supposed to be my moment. My idea. And now it was all about Nana Fit.

I nodded, professional smile glued on. “That could be an interesting angle.”

We landed the client. But that night, I cried.

I felt like a joke. Like all the years I’d spent building my resume, showing up early, going the extra mile—none of it mattered. Just one viral moment, and now I was “the Zoom girl with the grandma.”

I vented to Grandma.

“You should be proud,” she said gently. “You’re the reason I started moving again. You’re the reason I’m strong. They noticed because of you.”

“It’s not about you though. It’s about me becoming a meme.”

She reached over and squeezed my hand.

“Maybe it’s about how you made people smile when they needed it.”

That stuck with me.

A week later, I got an unexpected email—from Mr. Dunne. He wanted to talk in private.

We met in his office. He poured me coffee.

“You’ve been doing great work,” he started. “But I sense you’re…frustrated.”

I nodded.

“Look, I know the video thing took on a life of its own. But that pitch? The campaign idea? That was you. You carried that team. And the client sees it too.”

He handed me a folder. It was a promotion.

A new title. Better pay. Lead on the account.

I blinked at the paper.

“Seriously?”

“Seriously.”

“But the… I mean, the video?”

He smiled. “Honestly? That’s what cracked the client open. But your work kept them here. Don’t confuse the door with the destination.”

I almost cried again. But this time, from relief.

Things shifted after that. I started owning the moment instead of hiding from it. I even leaned into the “accidental influencer” title. My Grandma and I began making short weekly videos on wellness—her doing her hilarious workouts, and me sharing tips for young professionals juggling home life and work stress.

We called it Balance With Nana.

It blew up.

One of our videos got featured on a national morning show. Brands started reaching out. A book agent even messaged us, asking if we’d consider writing a joint wellness book from two generations’ perspectives.

I never saw any of this coming.

But then came another twist.

I got a message one evening from someone I hadn’t spoken to in years.

It was my dad.

We’d been estranged since I was nineteen. Things fell apart after my mom passed and he remarried too quickly for anyone’s comfort. I moved in with Grandma. He didn’t come to my graduation. Didn’t send a single birthday card after that.

But now, there he was. Messaging me through Facebook.

“Saw the video. Your grandma hasn’t changed one bit. You look just like your mom.”

I stared at it for ten minutes before replying.

“Thanks. Hope you’re well.”

That opened a door. Slowly, carefully, we started talking again. He apologized—for the silence, for not being there. I didn’t forgive everything overnight. But I forgave enough to invite him to a family lunch we were filming for our page.

It was awkward at first. He brought a gift basket, trying too hard. But when Grandma made her joke about “doing squats till 90 or death, whichever comes first,” we all laughed the same way we used to.

The clip of that lunch got over a million views.

People commented things like, “I wish I had this kind of family healing,” or “This made me call my dad.”

And it hit me: maybe the embarrassment was worth it.

The viral video, the judgment, even the jokes—it all led here. To healing things I didn’t even know were broken. To opportunities I never dreamed of. To making people smile who might’ve been having the worst week of their lives.

One woman messaged me and said she’d been caring for her mom with early dementia, and our silly videos gave her five minutes a day to laugh again.

I never meant to be an influencer. I never wanted to go viral.

But I’ve learned that sometimes, the things we try hardest to hide are the exact things that make us most human.

If I’d never turned on that camera… I wouldn’t have gotten that promotion. I wouldn’t have reconnected with my dad. And I definitely wouldn’t have watched my grandma get a deal with a yoga mat company.

Life is weird like that.

Sometimes your lowest moment becomes your turning point.

So next time your gut says, “Don’t turn on that camera,” maybe check the background first—but don’t be afraid to show the messy parts too.

People don’t need perfection. They need real.

And if you ever find yourself going viral for the wrong reasons… maybe it’s actually for the right ones.

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