Are You Sure About Him?

Right after we took that photo, I handed my bouquet to the planner and slipped behind the trees to breathe. My dress was perfect, the guests were smiling—but my phone buzzed with a text from a number I’d deleted last year. Five words: “Are you sure about him?” I turned around and saw the blurry outline of my ex standing there. His face was half-hidden in the shadows, but I knew it was him.

I froze for a moment. My heart stopped. It wasn’t supposed to be like this. Today was supposed to be about Daniel and me. But somehow, life had a way of pulling me back into old memories I thought I had let go of.

What was he doing here? And why was he texting me now? The wedding had barely started, and everything had been running smoothly. Was this his idea of closure?

I glanced at my phone again, trying to ignore the pull of curiosity. The message was still sitting there. I wanted to throw my phone away, but I didn’t. Instead, I typed a response, trying to keep my calm.

“Why would you ask that?”

The seconds stretched on forever, and just when I thought he wasn’t going to answer, my phone buzzed again.

“I know you. He’s not the one for you.”

His words stung more than they should have. I thought I had put all that behind me. I thought I was over it. But here he was, reminding me of all the doubts I had buried deep down.

“Are you okay?” Daniel’s voice brought me back to the present, his hand gently resting on my shoulder.

I wiped away a tear that had somehow escaped my eye and smiled. “Yeah, just needed a moment.”

Daniel looked at me with concern but didn’t push it. He had always known when to give me space. His patience was one of the reasons I had fallen in love with him. But deep down, I knew something was off. The message, my ex’s sudden appearance—everything felt wrong.

“Let’s go back inside,” Daniel said softly, pulling me gently toward the celebration. The soft sounds of music and laughter drifted through the trees, and for a brief moment, I considered running away from it all. But I couldn’t. This was my wedding day. The day I was supposed to be committing myself to the love of my life.

We walked back, hand in hand, and as I reentered the room, I could feel the eyes of the guests on me. The dress, the lights, the flowers—it was everything I had dreamed of. But there was this gnawing feeling in my chest that I couldn’t shake.

I tried to push it away, to focus on the vows we would soon exchange, but my mind kept racing.

I excused myself from the guests and slipped away to the back hallway. The scent of the flowers was too strong, the noise too overwhelming. I needed to think, to get away from it all for just a minute.

The moment I was alone, I pulled out my phone again. The text message was still there.

“You’re not the person you think you are. He’s not the one for you.”

I sat down against the wall, the words sinking into me like cold water. How had he gotten this close to me again? Why couldn’t he let me go?

I felt a sudden shift in the air, a presence behind me. I didn’t need to turn around to know who it was. I could feel the weight of his stare.

“Is it really him?” My ex’s voice was barely above a whisper.

I stood up, feeling a knot form in my throat. “What are you doing here?”

“I couldn’t let you go without saying something,” he said. “I never got to tell you how much I cared. How much I still care.”

My heart pounded in my chest. This was ridiculous. He was standing here, ruining my day.

“I’m married now,” I replied, the words barely coming out. “I’m getting married today, actually. Don’t you see?”

But he didn’t back away. Instead, he stepped closer. “You think he’s the one? You think this is what you want?”

I swallowed hard, suddenly unsure of myself. The words from the text echoed in my mind, and the ground felt unsteady beneath my feet.

“I’ve moved on,” I said, trying to stand firm. “I’m happy with Daniel.”

“Are you sure?” he pressed, his voice carrying a softness that almost sounded sincere. “I can’t help but wonder if you’re making a mistake. I always thought you were meant for me.”

Tears welled up in my eyes, but I refused to let them fall. This wasn’t supposed to be happening. This was supposed to be the happiest day of my life.

“I can’t do this,” I whispered, turning to walk away. But as I did, I saw Daniel standing at the far end of the hall, his eyes searching the room for me.

I felt my stomach drop. He’d seen everything.

I wanted to rush to him, to apologize, but my legs felt like lead. How could I explain this mess? How could I undo everything that had happened?

Before I could take a step, Daniel was at my side. His face was pale, his eyes filled with confusion.

“Is everything okay?” he asked softly, his voice tinged with concern.

“I—I don’t know.” The words came out in a rush. “I don’t know what I’m doing anymore.”

Daniel looked at me for a long moment, his expression unreadable. “I’m not sure I understand,” he said slowly. “But if you’re questioning things, I think you should take some time to figure it out. Maybe this isn’t the right time for us.”

I could feel my heart break at the thought of losing him. “No! Daniel, please,” I begged, reaching out for him. “I don’t want to lose you.”

He sighed, his gaze softening. “I think we both need to be honest with ourselves. If you’re unsure about this, then maybe you need to figure it out, without me getting in the way.”

The weight of his words hit me like a freight train. I stood there, stunned, as he walked away, disappearing into the crowd.

And just like that, everything I had ever known felt shattered. My wedding day, the happiest day of my life, felt like it was slipping through my fingers.

I ran outside, needing air, needing space, needing to escape the chaos in my mind. The garden was quiet, the evening sun casting long shadows across the ground. I sank down onto a bench, clutching my phone in my hand.

It buzzed again. Another message from my ex.

“I told you. He’s not the one.”

I stared at it, my mind racing. What was I doing? What did I want? What did I really feel?

I had been so sure about everything—about Daniel, about the future we were supposed to have. But now, standing here in the quiet, with the weight of my past bearing down on me, I realized that I had never truly asked myself why I was doing this.

Was I marrying Daniel because I loved him? Or was it because he was the safe choice, the one who had been there when I was trying to forget?

I didn’t know anymore.

A few moments passed before I heard footsteps approaching. I turned, expecting to see someone from the wedding, but instead, it was Daniel. His face was softened with concern.

“Can we talk?” he asked, his voice calm, yet filled with a quiet urgency.

I nodded, standing up. My heart was pounding in my chest, but I was ready to face whatever came next.

“I don’t want to lose you,” I said, my voice trembling. “But I think I’ve been running from something. I’ve been running from the truth.”

Daniel reached out, his hand gently brushing mine. “What truth?” he asked softly.

“The truth that I’ve been holding onto something from the past. I’ve been too scared to let go of it. But I don’t want to live in fear anymore. I don’t want to live with regrets.”

Daniel nodded, his eyes never leaving mine. “I love you,” he said simply, “and I think you need to figure out what that really means for you.”

I took a deep breath, feeling the weight of his words sink in. For the first time in a long time, I felt like I could breathe again. Not because I had all the answers, but because I was ready to find them.

“I think I need to walk away for a bit,” I said, my voice steady now. “To figure out what I really want. I think we both need that.”

Daniel didn’t argue. Instead, he simply nodded, and for the first time that day, I felt like things might actually be okay.

And as I walked away from the garden, I knew that I was making the right choice—not just for me, but for both of us. Sometimes, you need to let go of the past to find your way forward.