A transgender dad recently found himself at the center of a heated discussion on social media after he shared his frustration about being misgendered by medical staff following the delivery of his baby.

He emphasized the importance of addressing individuals by their preferred names and pronouns, highlighting how this practice plays a crucial role in respecting an individual’s identity.

Despite a general understanding of these social norms, some individuals and institutions continue to struggle with adapting to these changes, holding onto old beliefs about gender.

Bennett Kaspar Williams, at age 37, and his husband were overjoyed with the birth of their son, Hudson, born via a c-section. Bennett, although living as male and identifying with he and him pronouns, sometimes uses they. He explains that he does not see himself as non-binary, despite using both pronouns.

The joyous event was marred by recurring issues at the hospital, where medical staff failed to recognize the significance of using the correct gender identification. Nurses repeatedly misgendered Bennett, referring to him as “mom” instead of “dad,” as reported by the Daily Mail.

Bennett shared that his journey to self-realization began in 2011 when he identified as transgender, leading to a significant personal transformation by 2014. Although he underwent top surgery, he decided against undergoing surgery on his genitalia.

Experiencing pregnancy and childbirth was both a rewarding and challenging journey for Bennett and his husband. However, the persistent misidentification by hospital staff considerably affected his experience. Despite his explanations, he was continuously addressed as “mom,” which led to growing frustration and disappointment.

In moments of emotional distress, Bennett decided to speak out about these occurrences, aiming to raise awareness that such behavior is both hurtful and inappropriate. Through their story, he seeks to illustrate the necessity for changes within societal and institutional approaches towards gender identities.

By addressing this issue, Bennett hopes to foster an environment of understanding and acceptance that transcends yesteryear’s rigid conventions, paving the way for a more compassionate and inclusive future for individuals of all gender identities.