Just Because You Can, Doesn’t Mean You Should

When I was a kid and staying over at a friend’s house, his mother said she needed to speak to me in private. She sat me down and explained that just because I had figured out how to unlock the cookie jar without making a sound didn’t mean I should be sneaking cookies. I remember blinking up at her, a little embarrassed, holding half a cookie behind my back.

She wasn’t angry. That’s what stood out. She just looked at me and said, “Being clever is good, but being kind is better. One day, you’ll understand.” I didn’t. Not then. But her words stuck.

My name’s Niko. I grew up in a small neighborhood where everyone knew everyone. My dad was a mechanic. My mom worked at the library. We weren’t rich, but we were alright. I was the kid who could fix a busted radio at twelve, and by fifteen, I’d figured out how to get around most rules without breaking them outright.

Teachers called me “resourceful.” Friends called me “the shortcut guy.” If there was a faster way, an easier way, or a smarter workaround, I’d find it.

That tendency carried into adulthood.

I didn’t go to college right away. Instead, I started a small tech support business from my parents’ garage. Nothing fancy. Just fixing phones, laptops, setting up routers, that kind of thing. Within a year, I had more clients than I could handle.

The thing is, once you realize how much people don’t know about tech, you also realize how easy it is to take advantage of them.

Like the old man who brought in his laptop just because it was “acting slow.” A few unneeded software installs, a long “cleaning process,” and I could charge him a hundred bucks for five minutes of work.

I didn’t lie. I just… exaggerated. Framed things in a certain way. Always gave clients an invoice with lots of technical terms. Most never asked questions.

I told myself I wasn’t stealing. I was running a business. Everyone does markups. That’s just how the world works.

Right?

Fast forward a few years, and I’d moved out, gotten a small shop downtown, hired a part-timer named Denny. Nice kid. Quiet. Studying IT at the local college. I paid him alright, taught him some tricks of the trade. I liked him. He reminded me of me, but less confident. Less sneaky.

One Friday afternoon, this woman walks in with a cracked phone screen. Nothing special. She looked maybe late 30s, clearly tired, wearing a work uniform from a nearby diner.

“Can you fix it today?” she asked. “It’s the only phone I’ve got, and my daughter’s alone until my shift ends.”

I looked at the screen. Easy fix. But I had tickets to a concert that night and I didn’t feel like staying late. I could’ve told her to come back tomorrow, but something about her made me pause.

She sat down while I worked. Told me her name was Marla. Her daughter, Annie, was eight and a bit of a tech wizard already. She chuckled while saying it, pride shining through the fatigue.

As I handed her the fixed phone, I debated whether to give her the usual rate — $120 — or the actual cost, which was around $35. She looked like every dollar mattered. Still, I rang it up at full price.

She took a deep breath, handed me cash, and thanked me.

I watched her walk out, guilt gnawing at me more than usual. I shrugged it off.

Three weeks later, I was closing up shop when a guy in a suit knocked on the door. Said his name was Mr. Keaton, worked for a “community innovation project,” and wanted to know if I’d be interested in applying for a grant to expand my shop. He’d seen my name recommended by someone.

“What project?” I asked.

He handed me a brochure. “We help small businesses modernize. Automation, staff training, business mentorship. There’s a $25,000 grant available for promising candidates.”

I raised an eyebrow. “And who recommended me?”

He smiled. “A woman named Marla. She said you helped her in a pinch, and that your shop was the only one she trusted.”

I didn’t know what to say. I’d charged her more than I should have.

Still, I applied. Got the grant. Used it to renovate the shop, buy new equipment, even give Denny a raise.

Things took off.

With new tools and word-of-mouth, we had steady business. I even got invited to speak at the local community center about entrepreneurship. Funny, considering I still had a drawer full of “creative invoices” and a few secrets I didn’t talk about.

Then came the twist.

Denny handed in his two weeks’ notice. Said he got a job offer from a big firm in the city. I congratulated him but felt a sting of betrayal. I’d trained him. I gave him his start.

On his last day, he left an envelope on my desk. Inside was a note and a USB stick.

The note read:

“Niko, I want to thank you for everything you taught me. But I also want you to know — I saw some of the things you did. The markup tactics. The way you talked to certain customers. I didn’t say anything because I figured maybe that’s just how things work. But it didn’t sit right with me. So I decided to do something different. I built a small app that helps people understand what tech repairs should actually cost. I’m launching it next month. You might hate me for it, but I hope you don’t. This isn’t revenge. I just think people deserve honesty.”

My mouth went dry. I plugged in the USB. The app was simple, clean, and actually kind of brilliant. You type in your issue, and it tells you the average market cost, what parts are really needed, and how long it should take.

I stared at it for a long time.

I should’ve felt angry. But I didn’t.

I felt ashamed.

I remembered Marla’s tired eyes. The old man with the “slow” laptop. And that cookie jar I used to sneak into, just because I could.

For the first time in years, I looked around my shop and didn’t feel proud. I felt exposed.

I shut everything down early that day and went for a walk.

Past the old mechanic garage where Dad used to work. Past the library where Mom still volunteered. Past the alley where I used to sell fixed phones to kids from school.

I thought about all the shortcuts I’d taken. They’d helped me build something, sure. But they also left a trail — not of destruction, but of tiny betrayals. Small, quiet ones.

That weekend, I rewrote every pricing guide in the shop.

Removed the markup fluff. Replaced “technical fees” with actual descriptions. I even started offering a free 10-minute consult to explain what people really needed — and what they didn’t.

Some people were surprised. Some were suspicious. But slowly, word spread.

I didn’t make as much money per job anymore, but the volume went up. More people came. Some said, “I heard you’re the guy who tells the truth.” That meant more to me than any invoice total.

One day, Marla came back. Her daughter had accidentally deleted some photos from the phone and was freaking out.

I offered to recover them for free.

Marla looked confused. “Are you sure?”

I smiled. “Absolutely.”

When she left, I found myself tearing up. Not from emotion, exactly — but from relief. I didn’t feel like a fraud anymore.

About six months after Denny launched the app, I reached out.

Told him I wanted to partner. Offer discounts through his platform. Even host workshops at the shop to teach people basic tech care.

He was hesitant at first but agreed. Said he respected the change.

That partnership ended up being the best decision I ever made.

Not just for business — but for peace of mind.

Looking back now, I get what my friend’s mom meant. Just because I could do something didn’t mean I should. Cleverness gets you ahead, but character decides how you get there — and whether you can sleep at night once you arrive.

It’s easy to justify small wrongs. Especially when they come wrapped in convenience or profit. But every shortcut comes with a hidden cost.

Sometimes it’s money.

Sometimes it’s trust.

And sometimes, it’s a piece of who you are.

I still run the shop. We’re not a tech giant. But we’re known. Trusted. And that means everything.

To anyone reading this: Be clever. But be kind. Be smart. But be honest. The world has enough fast talkers. What it needs more of are the ones who choose to do right, even when it’s inconvenient.

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