My Dad’s Girlfriend Tried To Steal My Life

My parents are divorced, and I live alone. But I’m still in touch with both of my parents. So the other night, when my dad asked if his GF can stay over, I said yes. Big mistake. Later, I got a disturbing call from dad, turns out she wasn’t who she said she was at all.

At first, it all felt harmless. My dad had been dating this woman, Veronica, for a few months. He met her at a friend’s birthday party, and according to him, she was smart, spiritual, and had a “healing presence.” His words, not mine.

He asked if she could stay at my apartment for a few days because she had a family emergency in my city and didn’t have a hotel booked. I wasn’t thrilled, but I figured, how bad could it be?

The first night, she was… polite. Too polite, honestly. The kind of fake-nice that makes your skin crawl. She brought a bottle of wine and a scented candle, saying she just wanted to create a “peaceful atmosphere.” I don’t even drink. And I hate candles. But I smiled and thanked her.

By the second day, she was walking around like she owned the place. Moved my shoes off the rack, rearranged my fridge, and even saged my bedroom while I was out. I came back from work and the whole apartment smelled like burning herbs.

“Energy’s off in here,” she told me, sipping herbal tea she made using my last lemon without asking.

Still, I kept quiet. I thought maybe I was just being territorial. I live alone, after all. Maybe I just wasn’t used to sharing my space.

But then, things got weird.

I started getting mail addressed to Veronica Carter at my address. And I mean official-looking stuff—bank letters, health insurance documents, even a voter registration form.

I asked her about it, casually.

She laughed. “Oh, that? Yeah, I just needed a stable address for a few things. Hope you don’t mind!”

That made my stomach drop. She hadn’t even been there a full week. Why would she need to register things in my name and address?

That night, I called my dad.

“Hey,” I said, trying to keep it calm. “Why is Veronica getting official mail here?”

He paused. “She told me she asked you and you said it was fine…”

“What? I never—”

My voice cracked. He sighed.

“I had a weird feeling about that too. Listen, I didn’t want to worry you, but something happened.”

That’s when he told me about the call.

Apparently, he got a call from his bank earlier that day. Someone had tried to access one of his accounts using security questions that only someone close to him would know. Questions like his mother’s maiden name, his first pet, the street he grew up on.

He immediately suspected Veronica. But when he confronted her, she denied everything. And then stormed off, saying she needed “time to realign her chakras.”

Dad was shaken. He said he’d never felt more betrayed. But here’s the twist—he also found out Veronica had lied about her name. Her real name was Sandra. Veronica Carter didn’t exist. Not legally.

After that, things spiraled fast.

I checked my own credit report. I don’t know what made me do it—maybe paranoia, maybe instinct. But there it was: a new credit card I never applied for. Issued two days ago. With my address.

I froze.

When I came out of my room, she was in the living room doing yoga. Like nothing had happened.

I sat across from her and said, “Hey, did you apply for a credit card in my name?”

She didn’t even flinch. “No, why would I do that?”

I stared at her. I wanted to believe her. But then I noticed something small—my wallet. It was half-zipped, and out of place. I always leave it in the same drawer. She must’ve gone through it.

That was the final straw. I told her she had to leave. Right then and there.

She got defensive. Said I was overreacting. Said I had “trust issues” and was “blocking her energy.”

I didn’t care. I called the police.

She left before they arrived.

They told me there wasn’t much they could do unless I had proof she stole something or committed fraud. But they did file a report and advised me to freeze my credit and keep all documentation.

For a few weeks, I didn’t hear anything. Dad felt terrible, said he’d been love-blind. I believed him. He’s a good guy, just… too trusting.

Then came the next twist.

I was at work when I got an email from my landlord. Apparently, I’d submitted a request to change the name on the lease to Veronica Carter.

I nearly fell out of my chair.

I rushed home, heart pounding, and called the building management. Turns out, someone had submitted forged documents—pay stubs, ID, even a fake job letter—under that name, using my apartment number.

That’s when it hit me: she was trying to steal my apartment.

I don’t even know how she thought she’d get away with it. But she must’ve believed that with enough documents and fake info, she could somehow take over. Maybe she thought I’d move out, or she’d pressure me into leaving.

I was done playing nice.

I printed everything I had—screenshots, mail copies, emails, the lease request—and went to the police again. This time, I had more than enough to file charges.

But karma has a funny way of speeding things up.

Just a few days later, I got a call from a woman named Marissa.

“Hi, are you the person who had Veronica Carter—or Sandra, whatever—staying with you?”

“Uh… yes. Why?”

“She’s my cousin. Or… used to be. We’re not really in touch anymore, but she used to pull this stuff years ago. She gets into people’s lives, pretends to be someone else, and when she’s done bleeding them dry, she disappears.”

I was speechless.

Marissa had found me after seeing a Reddit post. Apparently, Veronica/Sandra had tried to rent another place under my name, and the new landlord had done a Google search and found someone else warning about her.

Turns out, I wasn’t the only one.

There were others. A woman in Chicago whose identity she stole. A retired couple in Nevada she scammed out of $15,000. A man in Florida who let her house-sit for a week and came home to an emptied-out bank account.

It was bigger than I imagined.

The police finally issued a warrant for her arrest. With all the testimonies and fraud reports coming together, they had enough to build a real case.

It took a month, but they found her.

She was living under another fake name in a rented RV, in a different city, with a suitcase full of IDs and a laptop full of spreadsheets—names, numbers, passwords. A portable identity-theft operation.

She was arrested. Charged with multiple counts of fraud, identity theft, and attempted property theft.

I showed up in court.

She didn’t even look at me.

When the judge asked her if she had anything to say, she just said, “People shouldn’t be so easy to trust.”

That stuck with me.

Not because she was right—but because it made me realize why she got away with it for so long.

People like my dad, like me, like the other victims—we all wanted to believe in the good in others. We wanted to believe someone’s story, someone’s charm, someone’s version of who they claimed to be.

But here’s the truth: trust is a gift. And not everyone deserves it.

I changed after that. Not in a bitter way, but in a wiser way.

I locked down my credit. I set up identity alerts. I learned how to recognize manipulation masked as charm.

And my dad? He started therapy. He wanted to understand why he kept falling for the wrong people.

We became closer, weirdly. Like surviving something traumatic gave us this new bond. We laugh about it now sometimes—about the sage burning, the tea, the “chakras.”

But beneath the jokes, there’s a real awareness.

We’re more careful. Not colder, just… more awake.

And in a strange way, I’m grateful.

Because that experience taught me something I’ll never forget:

You can’t control what people do, but you can control how long you let them do it to you.

So if you’re reading this and someone in your life feels off, even if they haven’t done anything “that bad” yet—trust your gut. Your instincts aren’t rude. They’re protective.

And remember: boundaries aren’t mean. They’re necessary.

If this story gave you something to think about, hit like and share it. You never know who else might need the reminder.

Stay safe. Stay smart. And never give away your trust to someone who hasn’t earned it.