The drawing is on the fridge. My daughter made it at school today. Four stick figures in front of our house, except there are FIVE PEOPLE in it. The fifth one is standing in the window. Watching.
My son is three. He can’t draw yet. But he points at the picture and says the name. The same name he’s been saying for weeks.
Eight days ago, none of this was happening.
“Mommy, Tara talks to me when you’re in the shower,” Colton said one morning. I was packing his sister’s lunch. Brianna had kindergarten at eight and I was already running late.
I figured Tara was imaginary. Kids do that.
My husband Marcus worked nights at the distribution center in Garland, so mornings were mine. Me, Colton, Brianna, and apparently Tara.
Brianna started mentioning her too.
“Tara says she used to live here,” she told me at dinner. Marcus laughed and said we should set Tara a place at the table.
I laughed too.
Then Colton stopped sleeping through the night. He’d stand in our doorway at two, three in the morning, saying Tara was sitting on his bed.
I moved him into our room.
Brianna drew the picture three days later. I asked her what Tara looked like. Brown hair. A blue shirt. A mark on her face, right here – she touched her own cheek.
My hands went cold.
I pulled up the county property records on my phone. Our house had one previous owner. A couple named Whitfield. I searched the name.
A news article from 2014.
A girl. Brown hair. A birthmark on her left cheek.
She’d been seven years old.
I couldn’t read the rest standing up. I sat on the kitchen floor and read every word.
She died in this house.
The Whitfields moved out three months later. The listing agent never disclosed it. We bought the house in 2021 and nobody said a goddamn thing.
I showed Marcus that night. He stared at the screen for a long time.
“Kids pick things up,” he said. “Maybe a neighbor mentioned it.”
Colton is THREE.
I’m standing in the kitchen now, looking at Brianna’s drawing. The fifth figure has brown hair. A blue shirt. A mark on her cheek.
Brianna walks in behind me. She tugs my sleeve.
“Mommy,” she says. “Tara wants to know why HER MOM NEVER CAME BACK FOR HER.”
What I Did in the Next Ten Minutes
I didn’t scream. I want to be clear about that because I feel like I should have.
I just stood there with my hand on the fridge door, Brianna’s fingers still wrapped around my sleeve, and I looked at that fifth figure in the window. Crayon. Brown hair done in short strokes. A smudge of red on the cheek where Brianna had pressed too hard.
Brianna wasn’t scared. That was the thing. She said it the way she’d say anything. “Mommy, we’re out of apple juice.” “Mommy, I can’t find my left shoe.” The same flat, matter-of-fact tone. Like she was just passing along a message.
I asked her, very carefully, “Sweetheart, where is Tara right now?”
Brianna looked toward the hallway. Then back at me.
“She went upstairs,” she said.
Colton was upstairs. Napping.
I took the stairs two at a time.
He was fine. Asleep on his back with his mouth open, one sock on, one sock off, the way he always sleeps. His nightlight was on even though it was two in the afternoon, because that’s how we’d been doing things lately. He looked completely ordinary and completely safe and I sat on the edge of his bed and put my hand on his back and just breathed.
Then I called Marcus.
He picked up on the third ring, which meant he was already awake, which meant he’d slept badly again. He’d been sleeping badly for a week.
I told him what Brianna said.
Long pause.
“I’ll come home,” he said.
What Marcus Found When He Got There
He drove straight to the library. Not home. The library, which surprised me, because Marcus is not a library person. He’s a Google-it-on-his-phone person. But he went to the library and asked the reference desk for newspaper archives, physical ones, and he sat there for two hours before he came home.
He had a folder.
Inside: seven pages of photocopies. Articles from the Garland Gazette, the Dallas Morning News, one from a neighborhood blog that doesn’t exist anymore.
The girl’s name was Tara Whitfield. She was seven. She died on a Thursday in October, 2014. The cause of death in the articles was listed as “accidental.” The details were thin. One article mentioned a fall. Another just said “tragedy.” The kind of language that means someone made a decision about what the public needed to know and that decision was: not much.
Her mother was named Deborah Whitfield. Her father was named Gary.
The last article, dated February 2015, was about the house going on the market. It had a quote from a real estate attorney explaining that Texas law does not require disclosure of deaths on a property unless the buyer specifically asks.
We never asked.
Marcus put the folder on the table and we both looked at it.
“Deborah and Gary Whitfield,” I said.
“I found them,” Marcus said. “Gary’s in Frisco. Remarried. I found a Facebook.”
“And Deborah?”
He shook his head. Not in a she’s-dead way. More like a she’s-gone way.
“Gary’s Facebook has no mention of her. No photos after 2015. There’s a comment on one of his posts from his sister that says ‘I’m glad you found someone who makes you happy.’ That’s all I’ve got.”
Tara wants to know why her mom never came back for her.
I had to get up and stand at the sink for a minute.
The Night Colton Said Her Name Out Loud
That was Thursday. Friday night was quiet enough that I let myself think maybe it was winding down, whatever it was. Colton slept in his own room. Brianna didn’t mention Tara at dinner. Marcus and I watched something on TV neither of us can remember and went to bed before eleven.
I woke up at 2:47 a.m.
No reason. Just awake. The way you get awake when something in the house changes, except I couldn’t hear anything wrong. Marcus was next to me. I lay there for a minute, looking at the ceiling.
Then I heard Colton.
Not crying. Not the scared sound he makes when he has bad dreams. Something else. Talking.
I went down the hall and stood outside his door and listened.
He was saying her name. Over and over, soft and sleepy, the way kids talk when they’re half in and half out of sleep and they don’t know anyone can hear them.
“Tara. Tara. Tara.”
Then a pause.
Then he laughed. This little three-year-old laugh, the kind that means something delighted him.
I pushed the door open.
He was sitting up in bed, facing the corner. Not the window. The corner. The nightlight was on and I could see his face. He was smiling.
He turned around when I came in and his face was completely normal. Happy, even. “Mommy,” he said.
“Hey, baby,” I said. “Who are you talking to?”
He pointed at the corner.
“Tara,” he said. “She’s sad.”
I looked at the corner. Plaster wall. His dinosaur poster. The edge of his bookshelf.
“Why is she sad?” I asked. My voice came out steadier than I expected.
Colton thought about it the way three-year-olds think, head tilted, working hard.
“She can’t find her mommy,” he said.
What I Did That I’m Still Not Sure About
Saturday morning I found Gary Whitfield’s Facebook. Marcus had pulled it up the night before and left the tab open on his laptop.
I sat at the kitchen table for twenty minutes before I typed anything.
I didn’t message Gary. I don’t know what I’d say to Gary. I don’t know that Gary is the right person to contact about any of this. A man who lost his daughter, rebuilt his life, started over in Frisco. I’m not going to be the woman who messages him out of nowhere to say my kids have been talking to Tara.
But I kept thinking about what Brianna said. And what Colton said.
She can’t find her mommy.
Deborah Whitfield. I searched for two hours. She’s not on Facebook, not on LinkedIn, not anywhere obvious. There’s a Deborah Whitfield in Tulsa who’s the wrong age. A D. Whitfield in Mesquite with no photo. An old obituary for a Deborah Whitfield in Alabama, wrong decade.
Then I found a comment. On a grief support forum, from 2016. Username was DWhitfield_TX. The post was about losing a child and then losing a marriage and not knowing how to exist in the world anymore. It had four replies from other forum members. The last post from that username was in 2017.
I don’t know if it’s her. I have no way to know.
I wrote down the forum name and the username in my notes app. Then I closed the laptop and went and looked at the drawing on the fridge for a long time.
What Brianna Said This Morning
She came downstairs before Colton, which is unusual. She sat at the table and ate her cereal and I watched her and she was just Brianna. Kindergarten Brianna. Gap in her front teeth. Strawberry on her pajama shirt.
I asked her, casual as I could, “Have you talked to Tara today?”
Brianna shook her head.
“Did she say anything else? Anything you forgot to tell me?”
Brianna stirred her cereal.
“She said she’s tired,” Brianna said.
“Tired?”
“Tired of waiting.” She looked up at me. “She said waiting is the worst part.”
I don’t know what to do with that. I don’t know what any of this means or what it wants from me or if there’s even a “what” here at all. Marcus is still in the camp of there-has-to-be-an-explanation, and I respect that, I do, but he also won’t walk past Colton’s room at night without checking inside. He does it every time. I’ve watched him.
The drawing is still on the fridge.
I should take it down. I keep not taking it down.
Colton walked into the kitchen twenty minutes ago, pointed at the fifth figure in the window, and said, “Tara’s still waiting.”
Then he asked for juice.
I gave him the juice.
I’m looking at the drawing right now. Brown hair. Blue shirt. A mark on her cheek, pressed in red crayon by my five-year-old daughter who had never heard the name Tara Whitfield before this month.
I don’t know what Deborah Whitfield did or didn’t do. I don’t know where she is. I don’t know if any of this is something I can fix or something I’m supposed to fix or if I’m just a mother standing in her kitchen losing her mind by degrees.
But I’m going to find her.
I have to try.
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