Running errands with my 3 kids feels like it goes on forever. By the end, everyone is cranky and exhausted. Instead of dragging them by the hand, I’ve found a simple trick that keeps them moving. All I have to do is say:

“Let’s race to the next stop!”

Instantly, their little faces light up. Even my quiet middle child, Aria, suddenly finds energy. My oldest, Mason, gets this competitive smirk and yells “I’m winning this time!” And our youngest, Benji, who’s only five, just giggles and starts running in the wrong direction until I steer him right.

It started as a joke one afternoon when we were all melting in the sun, trying to get through the grocery store parking lot. I was juggling bags and tantrums when I said, “Last one to the car is a stinky sock!” They all ran, laughing, and for once, no one cried or screamed. That was the moment I realized: play was the secret.

From then on, errands became less of a battle and more of a series of tiny adventures. We’d race from the car to the post office door, from the register to the shopping cart return. The winner always got to pick the next stop. It was silly, sure—but it worked.

But one particular Thursday, something happened that turned a regular errand into a moment I’ll never forget.

We were out of milk, dish soap, and patience. It had been a long week—school meetings, a broken water heater, and my husband working late shifts. I felt stretched thin, like that last bit of peanut butter at the bottom of the jar. But life doesn’t pause, so I loaded the kids into the car, snacks in hand, and headed to the store.

Mason was grumbling about forgetting his Nintendo. Aria had a mysterious cut on her knee and wanted everyone to see it. Benji was humming a made-up song about spaghetti. Just as I pulled into the parking lot, I whispered to myself, “Just get through this. Just get through this.”

But before I opened my door, I smiled and said it out loud, like always, “Let’s race to the doors!”

Three doors flew open, three kids jumped out, and the chaos had officially begun.

Inside, everything was as expected—crowded, noisy, and full of “Can we get this?” and “How much longer?” I was halfway through the detergent aisle when I noticed an older man watching us. He was wearing a dark green windbreaker and had kind eyes that didn’t match the stern line of his mouth.

He stepped aside as we passed and said, “Looks like you’ve got your hands full.”

I smiled politely. “All day, every day.”

He looked at Mason, who had just lost the detergent race to Aria and was sulking dramatically. “They don’t stay small for long,” he said, almost like he was talking to himself.

We moved on, and I didn’t think much of it.

At checkout, the kids helped me unload the cart. Aria made sure to tell the cashier that she was the fastest laundry soap picker in the land. The cashier played along, laughing, which made Aria puff up with pride. Benji waved at the people behind us like a tiny politician.

As I loaded the bags into the car, I noticed the same man from the detergent aisle standing near his own car, diagonally across from us. He had a small bag and no kids in tow. He waved gently at Benji, who of course waved back like they were lifelong friends.

Then, without a word, the man walked over. I tensed for a moment, unsure.

He reached into his coat pocket and pulled out a folded piece of paper. “I hope this doesn’t seem strange,” he said softly. “But I want to give you something.”

I hesitated. He noticed and smiled. “It’s not money. Just a note. Something I wish someone had given me when I was younger.”

I took the paper. He gave a final nod, then walked back to his car and drove away.

Back in the driver’s seat, I opened it.

It said:

“You’re doing better than you think. Don’t rush through these days. They seem hard, but they’re gold. I lost mine while trying to get everything done. Don’t make the same mistake.”

I stared at it for a long time. My kids were still bickering in the backseat, but their voices faded for a moment. My throat tightened. I folded the note carefully and placed it in the glove compartment.

That night, after dinner, I told my husband about the man. He listened quietly, then said, “Maybe it was a reminder. From someone who’s lived it.”

I nodded. That note stuck with me for days.

But the twist came a week later, on a chilly morning that started off like any other.

We were doing our “race to the library” routine. The kids burst out of the car, laughing, chasing each other past the sidewalk and up the steps. I followed, smiling, when I heard a scream.

It was Aria.

She had tripped on the final step and landed hard, her leg twisted under her. My heart stopped.

I dropped everything and ran.

She was crying, not the dramatic whiny cry, but the real, gut-wrenching kind. I knew instantly something was wrong. A woman who had been walking in ahead of us turned and called for help.

Long story short: it was a clean fracture. A few hours later, we were at the ER. Aria was in pain, scared, and not thrilled about the cast. But she was brave.

Later that night, she looked up at me and said, “No more racing, huh?”

I tried to laugh, but it came out shaky. “Maybe not for a while.”

She nodded solemnly, then added, “But it was fun.”

That broke me. Not in a sad way—but in a raw, grateful way. She didn’t blame me. She remembered the fun.

It reminded me again of that note. These days really are gold—messy, loud, imperfect gold.

For the next few weeks, we slowed down. Literally. Aria was in a wheelchair, then crutches. The boys adjusted. We did “wheelchair races” around the driveway and pretended the crutches were stilts. It wasn’t the same, but it was ours.

And somewhere in that quiet, a new rhythm formed.

Mason started helping more. He would get Aria’s books, open doors for her. Benji took on the role of “tiny nurse,” bringing snacks and stuffed animals to cheer her up. I watched my kids shift, adapt, grow.

A few days before Aria’s cast came off, I found a familiar green windbreaker folded neatly on a bench outside the grocery store.

No one was around.

It was just… there. Clean. Folded. As if someone had placed it down and walked away.

I sat beside it for a while, half expecting the man to appear again. He didn’t.

But I felt something.

That moment—Aria’s accident, the boys stepping up, the quiet windbreaker—it all clicked. That stranger hadn’t just handed me a note. He’d handed me perspective.

And I think now, maybe that was the point. Not just to warn me not to rush—but to show me that the real magic wasn’t in the races or the errands.

It was in the moments between. In the falls and the recoveries. In watching my kids become more than I taught them to be.

Aria’s leg healed. We resumed our races, slower at first. And we added a new rule—if someone trips or cries, everyone helps them get back up. Because winning didn’t mean being first anymore. It meant finishing together.

That small change made everything better.

We still use the magic words, especially when everyone’s tired. But sometimes, the kids say it before I do. Sometimes, they even say, “Let’s walk and talk instead.” And that’s a kind of magic, too.

Looking back, I realize I was always rushing—not just through errands, but through life. Wanting to get it all done. Wanting silence, wanting bedtime, wanting peace. But peace isn’t quiet. It’s being present.

That old man—wherever he is—I owe him more than a thank you. I owe him my days. My awareness. My joy.

Now, when someone at the store says, “You’ve got your hands full,” I smile and reply, “My heart’s even fuller.”

So here’s what I’ll leave with you:

If you’re in the thick of it, chasing toddlers or calming tantrums or stepping over LEGO landmines—pause. Look around. These are the golden days. They don’t sparkle, but they shine in other ways.

Let them run. Let them fall. Let them laugh and cry and grow.

And when it all feels like too much?

Say the magic words:
“Let’s race to the next stop.”

You’ll be amazed where it takes you.

If this story reminded you of something in your own life, share it with someone who might need that reminder too. And if it brought a smile to your face, give it a like—because we could all use a little more gold in our day.