My fiancé and I have been together for 7 years. Recently, he told me he’s been cheating on me. I was already pregnant when he revealed this to me. He always wanted a family, but I didn’t want kids. A few days later I got an abortion. When I told him, he sent me a text, saying, “You’ll never find someone who’ll love you like I did.”

At first, I stared at the screen, frozen. There was no apology. No regret. Just that. It felt like a punch in the chest. Not just because of what he said, but because, in some twisted way, a part of me had believed him.

We met in college. I was studying literature, he was in business school. He used to wait outside my poetry class, pretending to have dropped his wallet just so he could talk to me.

He was charming then. Warm eyes, silly jokes, always carrying two coffees even when I said I didn’t want one. He’d say, “One day you’ll drink it. I’m just practicing.”

I fell in love slowly. He made everything feel like home. Seven years of birthdays, road trips, movie nights, and cooking disasters later, I thought I had found my forever. We’d spoken about marriage, about building a life, but kids were always a tricky topic.

He wanted them, dreamed of them. I didn’t. I told him honestly, right from the beginning. I thought we’d reached a quiet agreement — that love, somehow, would be enough.

Then I got pregnant.

It was an accident. I cried in the bathroom the night I found out. Not because I didn’t love him, but because I didn’t love the idea of becoming a mother. Not yet. Maybe not ever. I told him about the pregnancy a week later. He smiled. Genuinely smiled. He pulled me close and said, “This is it. This is the start of everything.” I didn’t have the heart to tell him I felt like I was drowning.

Three days later, he told me about her.

Her name was Anna. They’d been seeing each other for six months. He said it wasn’t serious, that he was confused, that he didn’t know how to tell me. I just sat there, clutching my belly, not saying a word. My world was spinning and he was talking like he’d dropped a glass, not shattered our lives.

“I thought you didn’t want this,” he said, pointing at my stomach.

It broke something in me. That night, I booked an appointment. I didn’t cry. I didn’t explain. I just knew I couldn’t bring a child into a relationship where trust was already dead.

When I told him about the abortion, he didn’t ask if I was okay. He didn’t come over. Just that one text.

You’ll never find someone who’ll love you like I did.

I almost replied. Almost told him that love doesn’t lie. Love doesn’t cheat. Love doesn’t make you feel like an option. But I didn’t. Instead, I deleted the message, packed a small bag, and drove to my sister’s place.

My sister, Talia, had always been the practical one. She didn’t say “I told you so.” She just hugged me, handed me a blanket, and made me scrambled eggs even though it was past midnight. That first week, I barely spoke. I slept too much, ate too little, and cried only when the shower was running.

One night, as we sat on her couch watching reruns of some old sitcom, she asked me gently, “Do you still love him?”

I didn’t know how to answer. Love felt like a ghost — something I used to believe in.

Talia pushed a strand of hair behind my ear. “Then maybe it’s time to love yourself more.”

Those words stuck with me. Over the next few weeks, I slowly started piecing myself back together. I began therapy, started journaling. I took long walks and read books I had forgotten I owned. I avoided social media. I didn’t want to see his face, or worse, their photos.

One day, while picking up a coffee from a small place near Talia’s apartment, I ran into an old friend from college — Malik.

He had been in my poetry class. We weren’t particularly close, but I remembered his quiet presence and how he used to doodle flowers in the margins of his notebook. He recognized me first.

“Hey… wow, it’s been years!”

We ended up sitting outside, talking for hours. I told him about the breakup — not all the details, just enough. He didn’t offer sympathy, just listened. It felt good. Refreshing. Like exhaling after holding your breath for too long.

Malik had been through a rough breakup too. His fiancée left him two weeks before their wedding. Left a note and vanished. We laughed at how messy life could be.

Over the next few months, we started meeting regularly. Not dates — just two broken people finding comfort in shared silence, coffee, and occasional laughter. He never asked me for more. Never pushed. And for once, I didn’t feel pressured to be anyone other than myself.

Then one afternoon, I got a message from Anna.

It was a long text. She apologized for getting involved with someone who wasn’t honest about his relationship. She said she had found out the truth — that he had lied to her too. That I was never “just an ex.” That he had been juggling both of us, telling her I was out of the picture when I was still in it.

She told me she left him. Said she felt like a fool, but wanted to tell me the truth so I could have some closure too.

I didn’t know how to feel. I wasn’t angry. I wasn’t hurt. Just… done.

I sent her a short reply. “Thank you. I hope you find peace.”

A few weeks later, I bumped into him at the grocery store. He looked surprised, maybe even a little guilty. He asked how I was. I smiled and said, “I’m healing.”

He nodded and muttered something about missing me. That he thought about us. That he still loved me.

I looked him in the eye and said, “Maybe you did. But you didn’t protect that love.”

Then I walked away.

I never thought I’d see the day where that conversation wouldn’t break me. But it didn’t. Not anymore.

Malik and I eventually started dating. Slowly. Carefully. He respected my past, my boundaries, my pace. There were no grand declarations, no perfect love story. Just two people choosing each other every day. We both knew what heartbreak felt like, and we were in no rush to repeat it.

One night, a year later, he asked me, “Do you ever think about being a mom?”

I paused.

“I think about what it means to raise a child in a home where love is safe,” I said. “I’m not afraid of motherhood. I was just afraid of doing it with someone who couldn’t be trusted.”

He squeezed my hand gently. “If ever, one day, you choose that… I’d be honored.”

We didn’t plan it, but a year later, I got pregnant again. This time, I didn’t cry in the bathroom. I sat on the floor and laughed, tears streaming down my face. Not because everything was perfect. But because I wasn’t scared.

Malik held me close that night and said, “No matter what you choose, I’m here.”

We kept the baby.

Nine months later, we held our daughter in our arms — and I finally understood something my heart hadn’t been ready to hear before.

Love isn’t enough. Not if it’s selfish. Not if it’s dishonest. Not if it breaks more than it builds.

But love that listens, that heals, that shows up even when things are messy — that love is everything.

To the girl I used to be — the one who sat in silence, who doubted her worth, who thought she had to stay because time meant loyalty — I just want to say this:

You didn’t fail. You grew. You let go of what wasn’t meant for you, and you made space for something better.

Sometimes, the hardest endings are just detours to softer beginnings.

And if someone ever tells you “You’ll never find someone who’ll love you like I did,” just smile and say, “That’s the point.”

Because you deserve a love that doesn’t need to be explained or survived — only lived.

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